“Okay, then, make me lovable.” “What do you mean, ‘make me lovable?’ What’s this about ‘make me lovable’? Who decides who is ‘lovable’?” Why am I revolting against where this is going? I…am not…lovable… It has been ingrained into me that I am not… I have been told that I am not… and I have agreed and accepted and lived out of the”fact” that I am not… The idea that I am… turns everything I thought I had perceived and received to be true…upside down. MORE DETAILS.